"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Miles Davis

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Not sure what these fall under in these forums, so I apologize if it is incorrectly placed.

Just wanted to bring to your attention an excellent book. It is called the Power of Intention, by Wayne Dyer. If you haven't heard of it, check it out because it is eye-opening in its simple message. If you have, then you know what I'm talking about. It can be classified under the spiritual side, but don't let that repel you away from it, or any books of that type for that matter.

A lot of what is on this site is derivative from a higher level of knowledge and understanding. While the message on this site is great for picking up women, I'd really check this book out if you seek to have a permanent, ingrained, and thus natural way of going about life in general. The personal realizations that stemmed from reading these deeper books have improved my life ten-fold with women. Give it a read and see what you think.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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