"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Quiksilver

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Hey

I'm curious about something. I've noticed that on a lot of guys, their traps don't show. It's not that they're skinny, but I can't figure out what it is.

The two guys in these pics ARE skinny, but you can clearly see one guy has a different bone structure than the other, and I'm wondering what exactly the difference is, whether one has broader shoulders or something completely different:

Pic 1:

This guy has a horizontal line running across the top of his chest, out to the tips of his shoulders:

Pic 1

Exaggerated example

Pic 2:

This guy has more of a V-shape in his shoulders, where instead of it being a horizontal line across his chest, it dips down in the middle quite abit more. It's not quite as clear, but I can assure you it's not because of the orientation of his arms.

Pic 2

Another

I've been curious about this for the longest time, because I identify more with the second type with the V shaped shoulders. It might also be why my traps don't show, despite over 6 months of shrugs and other stuff. Any ideas as to what the difference is?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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int3l

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pic1 that guy has a the body i've been aiming for lol. wonder how long it took him.
 
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LolIt's cool that you're so interested in the science behind the aesthetics but could it be that your traps aren't showing because you aren't shrugging a good 400-500 lbs?

I have those traps youre talking about...the ones that REFUSE TO SHOW.

So I decided to make them start showing by doing insane sets of trap raises. Thats right, were talkign over 400 lbs on the barbell trap raises. Ones that MAKE your traps start showing. They may never look hugely upward, but they're getting thick, and they're up enough to start showing people I mean business.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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looks like the guy in the first pic has broader shoulders and a larger shoulder span.
 
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