"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Boldest move you've ever made?

MM92

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I was out with some friends about January time in a club on the dancefloor when 2 girls came and danced next to us. Out of nowhere and without even thinking I just span one round and kissed her just out of pure instinct. There must have been no more than 3 seconds before seeing her and kissing her. No speech, not even any eye contact. BAM! Luckily she carried on kissing me back and then asked if I wanted to "go outside for a fag". But I made an excuse and left as I actually had a girlfriend.

Probably the most boss thing I've ever done purely because it was purely instinctive and I've never done it before or since. Hopefully I never try it again because if she had a boyfriend with her or reacted badly I'd have been in deep trouble. :box:

Still, I felt pretty ****ing good after. I'm not exactly shy but I never thought I had that in me. :cheer:

Any other bold or risky moves anyone has made? How did they turn out?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Diabolito

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Not sure how 'bold' this is, but I still kinda enjoyd it so much;

Few years back, a girl hit on me in a bar. We ended up exchanging numbers, but I denied her knowing my name. During the week, we set up a date for next Saturday. She kept asking for my name, but I kept refusing giving it to her. It drove her nuts.

And yes it ended with a bang :)
 

byronicmate

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Wholly crap MM92. Beast mode mate.

Never been quite so bold.

Biaboloto, lol, she must have loved not knowing
 
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