Body language, IOI’s, women & interference

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

anour

Senior Don Juan

Jul 17, 2023

Hamurabimbi said:
recognizing body language & IOOs is good. But a lot of people are in their own world and aren’t necessarily paying attention to others. Just go up and talk to her. I’ve found most girls, even if they were minding their own business & not sending out IOIs, are happy to talk.

I agree with you, unless she a hoe with an attitude it’s always good to interact!

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