"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Body language, for texting

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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base2ball2boy2

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Good thoughts...

My only question now is why do girls always add extra letters at the end of their words? Are they trying to be flirtatious? Funny? I would have to think so...
 

eaglez1177

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I knew all of these...the one about periods has always been very obvious to me lol

EDIT: as for extra letters, if its a bunch of extra letters, I would consider if flirtatious. Ex: if she was like "Heyyy wats upp?" I would take that differently compared to "Hey wats up?"
 

MisterMcGee

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all girls have their own weird way of texting. i know girls who go ... ... .. all the time. and girls who !! all the time. and girls who go uhh ahh eehh aahh all the time
 

War Against Betaism

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I always knew someone is bothered or not feeling you when they ended the text with like 3 periods like this... though I never really thought ending a text with single periods had any significant meaning.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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