A few years back I made the mistake of fooling around with a married chick that claimed a divorce was imminent ( but wasn’t). Her husband made 360k a year... bought her a Mercedes and Audi suv..... let her stay at home... put a wing on their house for her mother and bum brother that couldn’t afford to live on their own. Gave her a credit card with free reign for clothing and her nights out with her friends. He took her and the kids on awesome vacations. She started complaining to me about her husband and I immediately was turned off. This girl couldn’t have asked for a more perfect life. I ghosted her.
A few months later her husband caught her cheating with some other dude. Granted her a divorce and I think paid 400-500k to get rid of her. She immediately went out and bought a 400k house so she could still maintain that illusion that she’s doing well. She is only working part time as the bills are now piling up. She’s with the poor idiot that she got caught with and this guy is now the handy man, nanny for her 3 kids, snow shoveler, landscaper, contractor, and mechanic for her..... females have zero logic. You can be an amazing provider and because of the feminist movement they resent the guy!