Blew bf out of the water

[dementia]

I guess i was in the right place at the right time with this girl. Dated her for a couple weeks then she dropped the "I have a bf" bomb and decided that she couldn't see me again cos she didnt want to hurt him anymore. She actually did confess to him too. Fast forward a week and I guess she's been dumped like. I guess it weighed on his mind too much. So I come home today and ive got a message from the bf like, basically saying hes dumped her, and I dunno. It was almost like a weird congradulations on my game but also being kinda judgemental like "I know the kinda guy u are, and u probably bang all the girls and my gf is just another ***** to u. and ive done that before too but now im not like that... and well i know u didnt know.. and so its cool.. but i just wanted to say this stuff to u"...

Anyway alot of it was judgemental n **** and i want to kinda be like "**** u dude, u dont know me".. but I remember being in this situation before and the girl got super pissed at me and her dude for contacting eachother. Its like a rule has been broken or something. I dont even know why hes contacting me. Any problem is between him and the girl. What do you do in this situation. Does it look bad if I reply like .. defending myself but also just saying "sorry dude, ive been in your shoes and it sucks".. or just not reply... After i read it i was like "wtf" and i messaged the girl like "Your man just sent me the dumbest **** ever"... if shes just been dumped like now, and is feeling bad for him, that might come across as bad... although he probably looks more douchier than I do the fact hes messaged me.. .Im not sure how she's feeling about knowing hes emailed me to be honest. Anyone been in this situation before??

Im thinking Ignore the dude, keep on with the chick?

 

[beyondunplugged]

Im thinking Ignore the dude, keep on with the chick?

Don't hate the player, hate the game. He dumped her. You don't owe him anything if he had tight game he could have figured this out. She didn't even cheat on him?

 

[dasein]

Ignore the contact entirely.

 

[stevo]

There's no point to gloat or say something disrespectful to the dude or chic.

Ignore the message if you don't have anything nice to say.

If its up to you, live in peace with everyone.

 

[MOTU]

Agreed that you should ignore him completely, and I would not have told her about his message to you. You don't want to be part of their drama.

Now chill for a couple of days and see if the girl reaches out to you, then escalate quick and bang her good a few times then move on. She IS NOT gf material. She is a cheater and a drama queen. Get the lay and go.