"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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adam22

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i was at an event the other day with like all black people. i noticed at my high school like no guys ever approach girls and its all white. but with black people they are always going up to girls really confident and not caring. also they were looking at the girls up and down and making their intentions known. ive always noticed this with black people. so im wondering do any of u agree with this and do u think afro americans have more game than whites or is it more part of their culture to be aggressive around girls?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PRMoon

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It's not that the brothas got more game or that we're more confident. Its really a case by case situation. Some tiems when i'm out with my boys we just like to act the fool and have a good time, sometimes everything works out for the best and we bust out some hoes.
But this notion shouldn't be take to mean that ALL brothas have game. I know some brothas who couldn't get any in a womans prison less when going head to head with and educated DJ.
As an afro american my self I can tell you that not all of us have it like that, it just depends on the person, enviroment, and the crew that you're rolliln wit.
 

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LOL

I disagree with PR (even though hes black LOL)

i see dudes approaching girls all the time, its not the person, its the culture, most black ppl dont givew a fukk so they approach much more then whtie kids
 

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Black girls approach alot too...If they see you and they like you, they will just come up to you and just start talking...
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why is there so much interest in other playa's? Be strong with your own game, no matter what race you are. It's the only thing that matters... :rolleyes:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You know why 'Blacks' and 'Puerto Ricans' approach women ruthlessly? It is because we know that many of them are hos and that they want us more than we want them - we approach them for what they are and we are unafraid.

'White' guys try to be too 'nice' to an unworthy subject and end up getting dissed or burned! Know your target and treat them with the respect that they deserve!!!!
 

Smooth as Anything

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Its lack of respect for women. You are ****ing idiots.

It has nothing to do with their race. It has to do with their upbringing.

I've seen a black guy show no respect for a woman (as you are all idolizing), and I've seen a white guy do the same. What do they have in common? They're trash.

Period.
 
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