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i really need some help asap.

theres this chick at my lockers who may or may not like me... just read this...

it all started maybe 2 months ago.
i really thought this girl was dead hot and by chance i was opening a friends locker (this friend had left the school)...
so she approaches me and says: hey is this your locker?
me: nah just opening something
her: k... nah i was wondering since ive never seen you round here...

well then i hit on her a little now and then, sometimes making convos.

that stopped

then last wednesday we were sitting after school in my teachers room. my teacher and her are talking while im studying (were the only ones in the room). so when they have a pause i kinda say something at random to my teacher (mostly to get her to notice me but without looking at her)...
me: hey, when are you gonna look at my honors paper?
him: *says something*.... few seconds pass
her: you have nice eyes...
me: thanx

so i dont hit on her til monday...
me: hey you done your scheduling yet?
her: nah, i thought that was in may...
me: nah today....
and then we had a pretty easy convo. just to get to know each other pretty much.
i was smooth. good eye contact. a pretty good convo.

this continued the next day (tuesday of this week)
*starts out with eye contact as i move toward her*
both: hey
her: youre pretty sweaty....
me: yeah... had PE
her: oh, you just had PE?
me: yeah but i forgot my sneakers *point at my sneakers in my locker*...
then i say: so did you get the AP classes you wanted?
her: yeah... which APs are you doing for next year?
me: calculus and...
*she looks impressed at "calculus"*
me: and lit
her: english literature?
me: yeah
her: well yeah im doing english lit too.... but not calculus
me: oh... you good at writing.
her: yeah, well at least i think so.
me: cool... you know your eyes are pretty good too
her: what?
me: *repeat*
her: *kinda smiles and says* well yours are just great. its like you look around and you see yours and wow...
me: *smiles my so called "big ugly grin"* thanx
*we both get ready to leave*
her: bye
me: bye

VERY SMOOTH.
so my plan of attack is pretty much ask for a date the next day (my friend reccomended this to me and hes got if possible an ever better way with girls)

WEDNESDAY OF THIS WEEK
first break:
her: *looks at my book* hey is calculus hard?
me: nah not really
her: nah... you good at math?
me: nah, kinda just hard i guess
her: k... is mr X good?
me: nah, i got ms Y
her: oh ok...

next break (i wasnt smooth at all. way too nervous and too dumb as youll see):
me: hey you seen gangs of ny yet? **it just came out here**
her: yeah its not very good
me: k... haha well i was gonna ask you if you wanted to go to that with me but i guess not then **WHAT THE HELL WAS I THINKING**
her: ah, k
me: so guess thats a no then
her: well.... couldnt you go to hipa *=popular nightclub here)
me: well yeah but dont have fake id
her: you look like youre 18 thoe.
me: thanks......
*few seconds pass*
me: maybe some other movie then?
her: dunno ill see.

then i go to the club with my friends (never go inside thoe).
see her there.
she apparently looked at me when i wasnt looking (according to them)
we have a crap convo. until a fat chick calls her.
i thought "man, this is to get her away from me." so i turn around and go back to my friends.
then she apparently turned back according to my mates, but i had already turned around

so i was kinda dissapointed. got drunk during the night and wrote an email to her saying something like:
"really like you. would be honored to go on a date with her"
(without ever having asked for her email)
i regret that now.

also, i was speaking to a semi-friend of hers on MSN, who outta the blue asked me:
who do you like if anybody?
me: X is pretty cool.
her: ohhhh taken

IS SHE TAKEN? WHAT THE HELL DO I DO? I STILL HAVE NO RESPONSE FROM THAT EMAIL...
 
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junglist

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Ouch dude, that's some hurtin ****... you really fuct yourself in the ass with this one...

here's what u don't do: don't make any excuses like you were "just joking" or anything, don't email her again, and don't tell her ur interested again.

You've gotta move on for now. Start talking more to other chicks. If anyone asks, you heard she was taken and have moved on with your life. Do anything else and you're perceived as desperate... for life!!!

Don't just pretend to move on, really try. You've gotta get your mind away from her and to be honest, I think you've probobly blown your chance completely.

If you move on, in a few weeks one of her friends may try to test you again to see if you still like her. Make it clear that you have moved on.

Everyone falls for "the one". It happens and life goes on. You will only get hurt if you pursue her.

Read the bible and live your own life.

peace
 

UnexpectedTeen

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wow! you have great memory!
to remember something like that...........
i suggest you go to the high school forum if you wanna.
make it very very clear to her that you are the great catch, you are the prince charming every body is fighting over for. if she is taken, there are 99,999,999 more out there.(maybe more than that.) let me give you a hint, if you continue to wait for that email reply, you will rot and die of a horrible death. HE|| if you wanna know if she is taken, go right up and ask heR!!!
 

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Did you really need to bump yourself 5 times? :rolleyes:
 
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