"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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bit of a dilemma (advice for routine?)

thebob

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here's my situation:

I only have access to a gym and weights/machines once a week. Should I alternate 1-2 body parts each week or try to get all or most of them done in the one day? Should I do push-ups/crunchies/etc. on some of the other days and if so how often, etc.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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option 1: Enroll at a(nother) gym

option 2: Get a bench, a barbell and enough weights to start with
(so u can either just work out at home or work out at home and work out the muscles u prefer to work at the gym in the one day at the gym)

option 3: Work out all muscles in that one day. Start with few sets and up them during the following weeks. Even though a lot of people say that your workout should be only 45 minutes because of shrinking testosterone levels, its most likely not as important as a lotta people tend to believe. You can definetly get great results from a work out which takes like 2 hours (Im pretty sure almost all bodybuilders work out at least for 2 hours..and Ive gotten great results with a routine of which 2 workouts a week took almost 2 hours also.). Another possibility might be to go to the gym in the morning (or early afternoon or something if u go to college/whatever) work out your lower body and go there again at night and work out your upper body.

You should definetly not alternate so u work out each muscle every second week. I think this would be a tad bit too long.
 
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Like I've said before I've been only working out once a week now (in a 3 - 3.5hr workout) for at least 5 years now and been getting good results.

(There was a myth going around - which still rears its ugly head from time to time - that your muscles start to atrophy after 48hr of not being worked out but as anyone who only works out once a week can attest this is simply not true).

Yes you can make gains on a once a week workout. Two weeks are likely to be too long a rest period, if you need more than a week to recover then you are probably over training (though from time to time a two week break can be good if you have been over training).

Bottom line is you should do fine on your once a week work out (eat plenty of food - carbs - the day before and in the morning so your muscles have the energy they need to perfom at their best - and the day after too).



PS: The other advantage of a once a week workout is that when you want to cut you can carb deplete (3-4 days a week which will make you weaker but thats OK because your not training on those days - and then carb load the other 3 days for your training session and recovery in which you regain the muscle lost on the 4 dieting days - or so the theory goes). Though if you want a net gain in muscle mass don't diet at all (I'm talking about how to preserve muscle tissue while dieting). Once a week workout is still good for gaining mass too.
 
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