biggest mistakes you made in dating

[CornbreadFed]

1). Trying to raise interest from lost causes- I should’ve moved on after the flakes, double text anxiety, or having to initiate most conversations

2). Not caring about logistics- Where you live can make your dating life extremely easy or frustrating

3). Obsessing over PUA dating rules- Dating rules are for novices or special guys. At some point, you can just use your best judgement and common sense.

4). Over analyzing- this just led me to stagnation and paranoia

5). Demonizing women- women are just human beings, not devious little devils that actively plot out shvt tests or whatever in secret.

 

[manfrombelow]

1). Trying to raise interest from lost causes- I should’ve moved on after the flakes, double text anxiety, or having to initiate most conversations

Been there.

2). Not caring about logistics- Where you live can make your dating life extremely easy or frustrating

Been there.

3). Obsessing over PUA dating rules- Dating rules are for novices or special guys. At some point, you can just use your best judgement and common sense.

Kind of been there.

4). Over analyzing- this just led me to stagnation and paranoia

100% been there, numerous times.

5). Demonizing women- women are just human beings, not devious little devils that actively plot out shvt tests or whatever in secret.

Been there.

 

[Murk]

Not being bold enough, second guessing myself, not realising they want it just as much as you. The boundaries you can push and get results from, the things you can get away with doing/saying.

It's like a switch that gets flipped, once you know there's no going back.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

3). Obsessing over PUA dating rules- Dating rules are for novices or special guys. At some point, you can just use your best judgement and common sense.

Yep, these are the same guys who get dumped or cheated on because they stuck to "rules" instead of going with their gut.