Biggest Beta I have ever seen in real life.

[Syrio]

I am posting this because there are million of guys like this, maybe they can see this post and see the light. Instead of orbiting married women, go talk to single ones. It's pathetic. I love how people read this thread and they think they can read the situation better than me, when I am there witnessing it all.

The reason people are doubting your judgement of the situation is because you are making spectacular assumptions based on almost no information. All you know is that he's soft-spoken and he talks to this woman at lunch, so you therefore assume he fantasizes about fvcking her. You can suspect that is the case but to be totally convinced of this (based on what you have said here) would just be stupid. You might be right, but for you to claim that he wants to fvck her with this much certainty would be like if I were to promise you 100% that the next time you roll a die it will be a three.

And either way, why hate on him so much? If he does want to fvck her, then he just seems like a guy who lacks social skills and has not had too much luck with the ladies. Why on earth would you hate him for that?

 

[Married Buried]

The reason people are doubting your judgement of the situation is because you are making spectacular assumptions based on almost no information. All you know is that he's soft-spoken and he talks to this woman at lunch, so you therefore assume he fantasizes about fvcking her. You can suspect that is the case but to be totally convinced of this (based on what you have said here) would just be stupid. You might be right, but for you to claim that he wants to fvck her with this much certainty would be like if I were to promise you 100% that the next time you roll a die it will be a three.

And either way, why hate on him so much? If he does want to fvck her, then he just seems like a guy who lacks social skills and has not had too much luck with the ladies. Why on earth would you hate him for that?

I have worked at this company for years I know what the guy is about. Can you please understand the picture? He is a nerdy loser who is a virgin, he has never even kissed a girl most likely and he is 25. This married chic is hired and he helps train her and she is nice to him, so now he follows her around like a dog in heat, stalks her desk and talks to her every day, sniffs her butthole, but never gets any action. Training a girl at work was his opening to finally talk to a woman, no matter her status. He dreams about the day that somehow, someway, she is going to leave her husband, and come to his arms. But it will never happen.

I am sorry if you see nothing wrong with this, not my problem.

 

[TheCleanPleb]

I have worked at this company for years I know what the guy is about. Can you please understand the picture? He is a nerdy loser who is a virgin, he has never even kissed a girl most likely and he is 25.

I am sorry if you see nothing wrong with this, not my problem.

Lol, you're so alpha!

 

[FairShake]

Dude you are 35. You need to stop looking for validation from others (who you don't even KNOW!) by putting down someone (who WE don't even know!).

Why do you care? Why should we care? How about you engage the guy if he's so pathetic? Show him the error of his ways.

And who still uses "nerd" as an insult in 2014?

 

[Mike32ct]

Odds are no other woman will talk to this guy. He's lonely and is possibly desperate for the attention. He is using the fact that women who are taken are generally more friendly than single ones.

I agree that the guy is wasting his time. No doubt. But I see WHY he does it.

Of course he needs to meet single women. But sadly, single and friendly don't go in the same sentence lol.

 

[Married Buried]

Dude you are 35. You need to stop looking for validation from others (who you don't even KNOW!) by putting down someone (who WE don't even know!).

Why do you care? Why should we care? How about you engage the guy if he's so pathetic? Show him the error of his ways.

And who still uses "nerd" as an insult in 2014?

What are you talking about? Validation I am looking for? My ass. Can a guy post a story about something he sees in real life these days? Give me a break. I don't care about game, I don't care about alpha, I don't care about anything. I am simply posting an experience I am seeing every day.

 

[3agle 3yes]

I often like to think how a person interacts socially (especially regarding the opposite sex) is a reflection of how they value themselves...

This situation eloquently summarises most men and women's basic validation requirements. Men want sex, women want attention...that's the primary motivations for many relationships right there. However, in many cases only one person gets their needs met.

The real shame for the man described (as i interpret) isn't necessarily the pvssy he isn't getting but the utter lack of value he has for himself and i also suspect the woman is no different.

I'm going to assume all their conversations are squeaky clean with no sexual inferences what so ever. Both know (at least on a subconscious level) what the other one wants but neither will say it.

Sometimes the most blatant messages are the ones not spoken...

 

[Masculinity]

Enough said here. Take the guy under your wing and make friends with him. It probably takes a lot of effort for him to talk to this married woman. Good men--especially DJs-- neither ridicule nor allow other men to go down because of their ingenuousness. Lead by example.

 

[SeymourCake]

A true Don Juan has neither a negative perspective on himself, nor towards others. If anything, it sounds like you're the frustrated one in this situation.

Validate others and bring them up with you.

But in your case, you are bringing others down which is NOT a Don Juan trait. The only person Pook has ridiculed was his former self in his AFC days.

 

[EJay]

Why so much hate toward this guy, yo?

 

[Married Buried]

Enough said here. Take the guy under your wing and make friends with him. It probably takes a lot of effort for him to talk to this married woman. Good men--especially DJs-- neither ridicule nor allow other men to go down because of their ingenuousness. Lead by example.

My god can you guys read? I am at work seeing this crap, I am not interested in taking any guy under my wing, making friends, teaching DJ'ism, or anything like that. I go to this building to earn a check, not make friends, Every person in that place can go to hell for all I care. I am simply posting something I am seeing. The last thing I will do is become his friend..

 

[Married Buried]

Why so much hate toward this guy, yo?

I guess I hate betas, and would like to see them all dead. I'm a Betahater. It's the opposite of Playerhater.