"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Big surprise, jealousy = win factor?

Swede54

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Ok so this girl i liked who turned me down, ended up sorta being friends. Well later on i got a gf who im with now. Now the girl i really liked big time in the past is saying things that are "odd". She seems to be all suggestive and i can tell its because i have a gf now. The thing is that makes it all great is i dont care. I know the old girl i just trying to gain my interest, but i dont care to give it to her. Im relatively happy with my gf now. All i do is sit back and laugh how things changed.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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chance

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haha. i think it's in the girls nature to be jealous. they can't help it. and god i love being in that position. not so long ago i made friends with a girl who even had a boyfriend... that didn't stop her from giving me her number AND getting jealous of me talking to another girl. while talkin' to this other girl in the same room, she butts in and asks for my help with something... women eh! :D
 

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yo man im in exact same position. girl who i really liked for a year, i found a new gf and that girl starts callin me and says things like "do u eva think about us being together?"

haha, she had her chances
 

thefonz

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Not caring about girls......pure bliss
 

Made.To.Be.Great

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Learn from it and work with it... jealousy is always a good supporter in the game called seduction... but don't be too obvious when you make someone jealous... keep it always suggestive!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Swede54
Ok so this girl i liked who turned me down, ended up sorta being friends. Well later on i got a gf who im with now. Now the girl i really liked big time in the past is saying things that are "odd". She seems to be all suggestive and i can tell its because i have a gf now. The thing is that makes it all great is i dont care. I know the old girl i just trying to gain my interest, but i dont care to give it to her. Im relatively happy with my gf now. All i do is sit back and laugh how things changed.

GOOD FVCING CALL!!!

thats what I'm doing. I invited my ex to a party and hit on other girls the whole night. I think its bugging her. AND I DON'T CARE!

YEA!
 
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