It's easy, with women and in life, to look at the failings of today, as opposed to the success of years.
Look at when you first came here, me; I was the biggest AFC imaginable, I was infatuated with girls all over the place yet I'd barely talk to them.
I came to this website, read the material, applied it and soon enough I had a girlfriend.... I was made up, all I wanted from this website, i'd improved the area of life I felt weakest, it was crippling in social situations not being able to hold a conversation with a girl, or not wanting to speak when girls were there. Since then I've had a few girlfriends, talked and know 100's of chicks personally and generally got my sh1t together.
I'm hard on myself sometimes and still think i'm being a bit of a chump, still get anxious, and I kick myself for it...
I look at where I've come from and realize that back in the AFC days I wouldn't even talk, let alone get a little nervy.
it gives me a massive boost of confidence to look back and know how far I've come from the geeky mess back in the day, equally it doesn't make me complacent, I never will be done improving in any area of life, you can learn something new every day.
PEACE
Look at when you first came here, me; I was the biggest AFC imaginable, I was infatuated with girls all over the place yet I'd barely talk to them.
I came to this website, read the material, applied it and soon enough I had a girlfriend.... I was made up, all I wanted from this website, i'd improved the area of life I felt weakest, it was crippling in social situations not being able to hold a conversation with a girl, or not wanting to speak when girls were there. Since then I've had a few girlfriends, talked and know 100's of chicks personally and generally got my sh1t together.
I'm hard on myself sometimes and still think i'm being a bit of a chump, still get anxious, and I kick myself for it...
I look at where I've come from and realize that back in the AFC days I wouldn't even talk, let alone get a little nervy.
it gives me a massive boost of confidence to look back and know how far I've come from the geeky mess back in the day, equally it doesn't make me complacent, I never will be done improving in any area of life, you can learn something new every day.
PEACE