"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Big "M" Word - what constitutes it

JHeights83rd

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A lot of times girls and adults say stuff about how bad it is to "manipulate" women. A lot of girls that I know say that the idea of game and getting girls is bs. they say 'just be real to her' 'If she likes you she likes you, if she doesnt, you cant try to run game on her'

I thought about this alot what constitutes trying to 'manipulate' the girl to get in her pants or something?

most girls will say anytime your not acting how u normally act is it. but what do you guys think?
Being in control of the interaction is not manipulating
I say,
(1) if u lie to her and tell her you really want something serious with her
(2) you try to put out some fake ass badboy or baller image when thats not really who you are

what do you guys think???
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mattathensga

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When you aren't up front with what you are after her for.

= faking personality
= lying about your self

the list goes on and on...

women are MASTERS at manipulation... if that isn't true, then marriage wouldn't exist....
 

spitkicker

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true game is NOT about manipulation. true game is about displaying and becoming the REAL "yourself".

When I realized this, my game skyrocketed.
 
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