"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Big "M" Word - what constitutes it

JHeights83rd

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A lot of times girls and adults say stuff about how bad it is to "manipulate" women. A lot of girls that I know say that the idea of game and getting girls is bs. they say 'just be real to her' 'If she likes you she likes you, if she doesnt, you cant try to run game on her'

I thought about this alot what constitutes trying to 'manipulate' the girl to get in her pants or something?

most girls will say anytime your not acting how u normally act is it. but what do you guys think?
Being in control of the interaction is not manipulating
I say,
(1) if u lie to her and tell her you really want something serious with her
(2) you try to put out some fake ass badboy or baller image when thats not really who you are

what do you guys think???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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mattathensga

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When you aren't up front with what you are after her for.

= faking personality
= lying about your self

the list goes on and on...

women are MASTERS at manipulation... if that isn't true, then marriage wouldn't exist....
 

spitkicker

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true game is NOT about manipulation. true game is about displaying and becoming the REAL "yourself".

When I realized this, my game skyrocketed.
 
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