"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Big Football game tonight.

Zaraza

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Gettin ready for it, im gettin face paint got a coupel friends that might do it with me. IM thinkin go all out. what you guys do for your football games?

i dont have a megaphone but that would be sick as ****.

get like a flare gun for every touchdown! ahhhaha. but ill get kicked out.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dannowillbookem

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haha we got a game tonight. you sound like this will kid who paints himself up and leads the massive cheering section at girl volleyball game. crazy fools.
 

bambino

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face paint and everything man... i got nuts if i'm really pumped up.. the ladies like it if your outgoing with spirit like that if they like being kinda wild..
 
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