"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Big Decision About Work & Moving

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Many of you know I work full-time in I.T. and am a part-time police officer. Previously I was a cybercrime investigator for a city police department, and a patrol officer, and in I.T. before. I've got a good opportunity out in Idaho to go back into Cyber full time. It would be a pay cut but not a killer one. I miss that side of it everyday. I.T. is really becoming a drag and I am really loosing my liking for the whole game. It's out of control. Where I work now in I.T. is the Sociopathic Business Model, people get so nasty about their technology and the management is a joke. Google "sociopathic business model" and you will understand clearly what its like. I've been written up twice in the past year for speaking up about the work environment and how management treats us. I could just sh|t up and take it but, well, that's just not gonna happen and I will eventually spill my guts again and probably get fired.. My part-time gig as a cop is actually a stress relief. I love everything about it. Being a cop is in my blood. I.T. used to be but the blood has rotted like a tomato.

Anyone here know much about Idaho? Would a redneck hillbilly from Illinois like me like Idaho?

Anyone ever taken a pay cut to switch careers to something more enjoyable?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Long time ago I ask myself ; would a jibaro from Puerto Rico like me like Texas? The answer was (and still) yes. Doesn't matter where you go , what matters is how you behave. How you treat people.
 
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