SeymourCake
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Prime example of a beta male. Guys, don't be him.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0mVeQkNDa4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q0mVeQkNDa4
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Beta Male - Do not be this guy!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Cool shirt... Ha ha.
I think they're talking in a relationship sense - where communication and mutual giving is key. Nothing wrong with anything they said in that regard.
Step 2 always got me bit in the ass though. I always assumed that, if I gave to them - especially when they complained about not getting - that, they would give back. Yeah, no. Most people are selfish and feel entitled. They'll complain about not getting this and that - without doing anything to deserve it. Nor would they give back once they got it - only to complain and call you selfish when you stopped giving. Can't STAND people like that... Dated way too many of 'em.
(This is for everything in general - not just the oral sex topic.)
I think they're talking in a relationship sense - where communication and mutual giving is key. Nothing wrong with anything they said in that regard.
Step 2 always got me bit in the ass though. I always assumed that, if I gave to them - especially when they complained about not getting - that, they would give back. Yeah, no. Most people are selfish and feel entitled. They'll complain about not getting this and that - without doing anything to deserve it. Nor would they give back once they got it - only to complain and call you selfish when you stopped giving. Can't STAND people like that... Dated way too many of 'em.
(This is for everything in general - not just the oral sex topic.)