"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Best way to transition to getting the girl to go out with you day game??

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I got several numbers this weekend from the mall, I talked to a few for a good while 5 minutes or one was like 20 minutes. But I got the number nothing came from it. One girl ignored me when she said she gets off at 9 and I would call her then. Other girl seemed interested asking me questions said I could call or text her anytime. I hit her up the next day, very little response then ignored me completley.

What do I need to do to keep them interested? Like what do I text after I get the number because this is aggravating I know you got to keep texting the girl after you get her number. And say what is my name? We are hanging out this time and this day to her in person. The guy who stole my girl last night was doing that when he exchanged numbers with her.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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