Best way to forget about ex for an AFC

[backseatjuan]

After you break up there is going to be depression and desire to fix things. You need to find a way out of it for your own well being. Number one way is to meet other people, try it, though not every one is up for it, I know. Some will cry, I want my old girlfriend back! I feel you dude.

To forget her you need to think of her, which you already do, but not in romantic type of fasion, where you love her, she loves you, and everything is fine. You need to grownd yourself, stop flying in lala land. Think of times you felt crap and she was having fun, times when you cared for her, and she did other things. Think of all the ways she hurt you. You cared for her, and she hurt you. Think of how she dumped you, how you loved her, and she just dumped your arse, absolutely not caring for your feelings. That is the girl that you don't want in your life, she sh1t, even for a friend.

Try to put yourself above that low life woman and try to meet other people.

 

[R.C]

I've never been played by a woman.

I've only played myself.
While you're right and people tend to cling on the good times and completely disregard the **** reality their relationship probably became, she's not a "low life woman" because your feelings got hurt. In truth you probably deserved it. At least that was my experience.

Keep your head up, spend time with friends and work on achieving your goals. It's a pain period which you gotta push through, may as well do it right.

 

[Between_The_Lines]

An AFC's top priority after being discarded like toilet paper ought to be expunging every AFC trait and tendency driving his close friends up the wall, thinking daily to themselves "will we ever hear the end of this guy's ex?"

 

[BrainDamage92]

Think alot about yourself and miss so and so and why it got ****ed up. She wont give you an answer since women dont have the capacity to do that. She prolly jumped the next oncoming train to kill the pain ASAP lol, whoever did the dumping is unimportant, Ive never been dumped (not that experienced either), still women have their ways to make you suffer for it no matter who ended it. Society gives them too good of an option to paint you black with no questions asked so why not take it eh? Women... But thats why I say always dump first, you gotta feel when ****s about to hit the fan. Couse women dont have the balls to dump usually and will create unnecessary drama around the whole thing. "The awful guy who left his GF" sounds abit better than "The awful guy who couldnt make his GF happy so she was oblidged to suck on some other co*k". See...

The question is why was the relationship toxic not who one-upped who. This "wanting to come on top" is exactly why you are drown to toxic people. And you can use that to change your mindset. But women are rigid, esp when they are young dumb and full of ***. Women mature spiritually much later I think. So miss so and so wont change most probably since shes a stupid ho, love does not work the same way for her and is unlikely it would be a life changer.

Think like this - was your feelings sincere? Did you give her your best shot? Did you do the best you can? If so, no reason to feel guilty or whatever. ***** will be sitting 10 years from now thinking - "Woooa this dude was cool I was so stupid I couldnt keep him satisfied" but that dude already grew 10 years ago and realised he deserves more ;]


And dont label yourself like that "AFC"? Wtf is even this BS? Youre not AFC. If theres one good thing my mother taught me its never talk bad about yourself like that, let others do that for you they love it anyway.