"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BEST THREAD EVER!... this IS the ANSWER

TruthHurts

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Listen,.... had a huge realization when i woke up.. check it out...

If you have to ask in the first place, then its probably not right and you need to move on...

i.e. Would you ask someone "I am not sure if my best friend is really my best friend"... wtf.. that is something you would ask your best friend if he/she was..

In therwords if you have to ask, its probably cause your gut feeling is telling you something is wrong... But, then you try to lie to yourself and paint a picture of something that is not there...

In conclusion, if it walks like a duck and talks like a duck. It's a f.ucking duck! (not a chicken)...

a girl that you really click with, everything would flow, and time would go by and you would ask her questions and not us behind her back...

I accept donations lol :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tha Realnezz

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Pretty much that's how I feel.

If a girl likes you then she wouldn't give you a hard time just to go out or ****.

She would be all over you constantly.

But that sh!t goes over the head of these nerds.
 

TruthHurts

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yes....ur right! :)

selfmademob said:
So if you have to say "BEST THREAD EVER!" It's probaly not the "Best thread ever".

selvmademob... lol ... you are actually right... if it was the best thread ever, it would be obvious and I wouldnt have to try to advertise/sell it so hard..

just like a good girl doesnt have to say she's a good girl... (i.e. when a girl says "i'm a good girl" she's a ho lol....... cause a trully good girl wouldnt even say it, she would be too shy to be alone in your room discussing what your about to discuss lol.....:woo:
 

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WTF?!?!
no..... NO!!!

why ask her questions?? she has no idea what the fcuk is going on in her head.... and even if she did she'd just spit bullsh!t anyways... NO!!!!!!!

I agree with taking a "duck for a duck" but asking her instead of the dj site.... no....

If theres something that doesnt sit right with you then scope it out with a level head and read body language or read signs... read wot u can but dont ask unless you wanna fill your head with BS and if its still fcuking with you THEN ask the DJ site.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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