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Best Summer Job

falconslax89

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so i am thinking i got just about one of the best summer jobs possible for not only meeting women but just talking to and meeting new people in general. i got a job as a lifeguard at a large waterpark in my hometown. i dont have my deep water certification so i wont just be sitting up on a stand over the wave pool watching for people in need of help, instead i will be working on all of the different slides and rides.
basically i just sit up at the top and tell people when they are allowed to slid down. i figure this will be a great way to meet a bunch of people as it is an essentially endless line of people waiting to talk to you. many of those very attractive girls of all ages in skimpy bathing suits. i have been going to this park since i was in diapers and have watched the lifeguards mack on woman there my entire life...now its my turn.
besides the obvious perks of meeting *****es i get to be outside all day which i love, i get to wear a swimsuit and tanktop to work and am bound to get a nice tan going real quick.
has anyone else had a job similar to this or just anything to add to my situation?
 

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falconslax89 said:
so i am thinking i got just about one of the best summer jobs possible for not only meeting women but just talking to and meeting new people in general. i got a job as a lifeguard at a large waterpark in my hometown. i dont have my deep water certification so i wont just be sitting up on a stand over the wave pool watching for people in need of help, instead i will be working on all of the different slides and rides.
basically i just sit up at the top and tell people when they are allowed to slid down. i figure this will be a great way to meet a bunch of people as it is an essentially endless line of people waiting to talk to you. many of those very attractive girls of all ages in skimpy bathing suits. i have been going to this park since i was in diapers and have watched the lifeguards mack on woman there my entire life...now its my turn.
besides the obvious perks of meeting *****es i get to be outside all day which i love, i get to wear a swimsuit and tanktop to work and am bound to get a nice tan going real quick.
has anyone else had a job similar to this or just anything to add to my situation?
i worked in a theme park for a good number of years when younger... there is a lot of girls there and it fuelled my sex and love life for like 4+ years...
make sure you have good social proof with the other staff.
its also good coz if your a student you will likely be able to go back next summer and so on...

but i doubt you will be able to get that many #'s from guests - it would be good for C+F banter practice, and perving (unless you get stuck in the kids section! eww!)

the other type of best summer job id say is working in a party resort - you would get a LOT of action and fun expeiences but it takes balls to move away and find some random bar job (and you'd prob spend all the money you earn)!

out of interest what water park are you working at??
 

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kingsam said:
i worked in a theme park for a good number of years when younger... there is a lot of girls there and it fuelled my sex and love life for liek 4 years...
make sure you have good social proof wiht the other staff.

but i doubt you will be able to get many #'s from guests - its would be good for banter practice, and perving tho (unless you get stuck in the kids section! eww!)

the ohter typoe of best summer job id say is working in a party resort - you would get a LOT of action and fun expeiences but it takes balls to move away and find some random bar job (and youd prob spend the money you earn)!

out of interest what water park ??
white water in branson, mo
 

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also ive often thought about doing that sort of thing(going away and working in some crazy place for a summer) i think it would be a lot of fun
 
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