"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Best Seduction books?
- Thread starter Seraph
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Then you have about everything that books can tell you.
There are several posts about which books are good. Do a search.
Walden
Master Don Juan
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just because the book is more a series of historical examples of seduction, and the different things that people do to seduce women (or men), it would take reading it a couple of times before you really get the juice out of that book.
But, I unfortunately have to agree with 'simplyme' (I dislike the oversimplification that he did), that if you just get the jist of what this site has to offer, along with the mASF, and David d's e-books (which can be found using your local filesharing program that starts with a k and is apparently a curse word).
So, if you are interested in reading the seduction book, just go for it... but you would have to read that one more then once to become a better seducer.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
WHATT?!?!?! Do you sometimes move posts just because you haven't done so in a while???Originally posted by crazykid
Unusual Techiques in Seduction.
meh... you're the MOD...
suavedave
Senior Don Juan
This is a great idea... I would love to see your work. I just spent some time in the library doing a search for "sex" in subject&title and came up with over 5,000 matches. There seems to be some good and interesting books out there. Do a search... If I find anything useful i'll post it up; I may post a big list of all the ones that look good.
Best regards,
dave