best course of action

[FailTillYouSail]

I asked this hb9 from my class to go out this Friday, she replied " maybe. i dont mind". and we agreed to get in contact later in time

one day before the scheduled day to meet up, i give her a call ( since she didn't call me) and she doesn't pick up.

now its 5 days later and no contact since. she was in my class so i thought she would have the decency to say no, but nothing, NADA

first girl i asked out so im happy that i did it, but i would still like to screw her, any advice?

 

[Tictac]

Let it go. Move on.

You have more important things to think about than a flake.

 

[Jariel]

When a girl says "maybe" or "I don't mind" just forget about her. Even if she's playing cool, she will be such hard work and so demanding it's not worth your time and effort.

Clearly she flaked on you. It happens a LOT and you have to expect it. The key is not to get caught up on these girls, just let go and go find new prospects. Once you're able to do this, you'll find a lot more girls and, even the flakes, come back around.

 

[FailTillYouSail]

thx

Thanks for the advice, I guess I will do just that and forget about her.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Tepid answer to date solicitation = low, low interest.

No answer to phone call = likely no interest (could be busy, at work, etc.)

Doesn't contact you afterward = no interest.

Result: move on

And....entering stage right, Judge Nismo's sage go to advice: a woman interested in you won't confuse you.

If you don't know who the judge is, stick around a while, he'll introduce himself eventually.