"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys, I've met this 37 years old woman who have a great interest in me. She is not good looking, I'll give her 4.5. I consider her as a friend. She is willing to do anything for me, but somehow deep inside me, I feel it is not right for me to be taking an advantage over her. I'm 26 and have no desire of dating a woman 11 years older than me. This woman definately has money, but last time I took her to a movie, I ended up paying for both of us. I would like her to take care of me, I mean pay for the movies and dinner from now on. Is there a way i can rap her? Should I tell her I've no money and therefore cannot afford anything? What is the best approach?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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You want to exploit a woman by leading her on so she pays to take you out?
Classy dude.
 
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Natch said:
You want to exploit a woman by leading her on so she pays to take you out?
Classy dude.
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Well, you can say that. But I'm not trying to exploit her. I just feel it would be great to let her do the spreading next time we go out. That's all
 
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You can do this one of two ways, whine about being broke or take turns paying.

If you whine about being broke, order water with your meal (which should be a $5.00 appitizer) She might take pity on you and buy you some dinner. Maybe even pick up the movie tickets, or what ever you guys do.

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How about telling her: "I paid last time, this time, it's your turn."
This has worked out great for me and my "strictly friends" of the male persuasion. He buys the tickets, I buy the drinks & popcorn. He buys one meal, I get the next one. It all balances out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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