"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Benefits Of Not Having a Facebook ??

omega05

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you can have a facebook and still go out and enjoy life/meet new people so your "benefits" dont really make sense.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Bat said:
Benefit of facebook for me? - I hate the people in this world a little less because I don't know what kind of idiot shenanigans they are up to...
Pretty much this..

What made me delete Facebook was stalking my ex and seeing how happy she was lol I actually found the pain addictive in a sick way.

Moral of the story it can really Fvck with you mental health if your not careful.

I also found that it seemed like everyone else's life was awesome and my life failed in comparison so that was a mind Fvck.

And finally..

Some people (more than you think) should remain in the past.
 
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