"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Belgium / Gent - Wingmans needed

Torbosk

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So, the title says it all.

You can find some more information about me in my profile. I think it would be cool if a couple of guys could get togheter and we could learn from each other or help one another.

Ik spreek nederlands, maar mijn engels is redelijk goed, frans ook.
Ik studeer nog, en heb een flat in Gent. 21 jaar maar redelijk volwassen al, 1m89, 82 kg, atletisch.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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wingmen

beste Torbosk,

Ik ben kandidaat wingman!
Ik studeer ook in gent. Email me om me beter te leren kennen en concreet af te spreken. Ik heb juist een emailtje geschreven naar de webmaster hier om je emailadres te bekomen maar heb nog geen antwoord gehad omdat het gelijk nog maar vijf minuten geleden was.

cheers!
Bright.



Torbosk said:
So, the title says it all.

You can find some more information about me in my profile. I think it would be cool if a couple of guys could get togheter and we could learn from each other or help one another.

Ik spreek nederlands, maar mijn engels is redelijk goed, frans ook.
Ik studeer nog, en heb een flat in Gent. 21 jaar maar redelijk volwassen al, 1m89, 82 kg, atletisch.
 

Torbosk

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bright said:
beste Torbosk,

Ik ben kandidaat wingman!
Ik studeer ook in gent. Email me om me beter te leren kennen en concreet af te spreken. Ik heb juist een emailtje geschreven naar de webmaster hier om je emailadres te bekomen maar heb nog geen antwoord gehad omdat het gelijk nog maar vijf minuten geleden was.

cheers!
Bright.
Ok thx, i'll mail you back.
If anyone else is interested, don't hesitate. If you take a chance good things can happen. I think 3 or 4 guys would be ideal to explore the Ghent nightlife. But everything's open of course...

Ciao, leuke zomer nog!
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