"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being tooo nice!!

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This girl that lives around my way I recently found out she works in the same building as me so we exchanged numbers and she has been calling me non stop since. So the other day we cut work and went to a movie. Now this morning she called and wanted to ride with me to work now my question is am I being too nice to this chick I mean I know girls dont respest kindness lol. Today when she call me at lunch I will just tell her im busy and hang up lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This girl that lives around my way I recently found out she works in the same building as me so we exchanged numbers and she has been calling me non stop since. So the other day we cut work and went to a movie. Now this morning she called and wanted to ride with me to work now my question is am I being too nice to this chick I mean I know girls dont respest kindness lol.
Today when she call me at lunch I will just tell her im busy and hang up lol
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I suggest not to do that. By the way, don't you have any feelings for her? Are you single yourself? Did you give her a signal of interest?
 
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there's nothing wrong with being nice. You're doing fine. But when you feel you're going overboard, stop there.
 
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Be as nice to her as you would be to a guy friend.
 
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You have to find the perfect balance. Being too nice is nearly equivalent to chopping off your balls. Being a real d!ck isn't always good either. Be nice but be the nice guy who takes Sh!t from noone (especially a woman).
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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