"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Being too cold and losing prospects

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Okay, this is something I've picked up at many of the summer get togethers with girls at my school. If you do have prospects --Especially those who network, DO NOT be so passive that HB's begin to see you as having a "too cool" or "heartless" ego. Don't forget that part of Alpha-ing is not only showing what makes you dominant, but what makes you unique as a functioning and perceptive human being in the eyes of females. That being said don't be SO intent on creating the mysterious aura that you forget to shell out some kino, give em a sexy smile and woo them with your speech. Once you find the yin/yang between the two ONLY then will you be swimming in the sugarwalls.

*Remember* Part of what makes one Alpha succeed over betas or even other Alphas, is not only excelling in the important aspects of DJ trades, but learning to balance and recognize how to shine through with certain portions of our ability to Alpha ourselves over competition. Most importantly, remember that DJ-ing is not only about female prospects, it brings competition, self discipline, and most importantly the wild ride of becoming the strongest version of yourself. Don't become so engrossed in f**cking up or the unknown, resulting in you forgetting to have sheer passion and fun in Alpha lifestyle.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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