Being tested

[LuckyStrike]

I'm just curious how you guys take it when you feel a woman is testing you. Do you feel insulted or flattered?

I have a female coworker who I generally get mixed signals from, has recently been trying to get some kind of reaction out of me...whether it be trying to make me blush or even embarrass me(nothing mean-spirited) but to no avail. Just the other day she tried to make some comment about my work to try and anger me. For the most part, I'm an even-tempered person and keep my cool in most circumstances and have been told I come across arrogant. Maybe she is trying to knock me down a peg or two...who knows?

 

[b's nuts]

hmm, careful with the broads at work, you don't want to get mixed up with them unless you are planning on leaving that place of work any time soon.

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by b's nuts
hmm, careful with the broads at work, you don't want to get mixed up with them unless you are planning on leaving that place of work any time soon.

I concur!!!

 

[Recluce]

i have learned to get flattered when a girl tests me. if she's testing you then that means she has some sort of feelings for you but wants to make sure that you aren't a wuss and can stand up to her.

 

[Bonhomme]

I still don't know

I tend to date extremely intelligent women, so I usually don't know when or if it's happening, unless I do the wrong thing and it's too late.

Usually "making the wrong move" consists of not calling her on something when I really don't care about it. Like one gal I was supposed to meet up with, and she called me the evening we were supposed to go out and said she was going to a barbecue for "just a short while," and that she would call me when she leaves there. I really had no problem with it, because I wanted to take a couple hours of rest before heading out. She didn't call.

She may have thought I wussed out, and wanted me to lay down the law, but I really was not bothered by the delay. Or perhaps she was testing my interest to see if I would call her to ask where the hell she was at some point. I didn't call, either, and wrote her off. If she says she'll call and doesn't, she fails my test.

Usually I'm glad to be rid of any gal who tests me. The best ones never have tested me, or if they did I was unaware of them ever having done so.

 

[Royal-tiger]

Cherish your self-respect more!

Looking back, it is noteworthy how many women I have dumped because they were "testing" if I would kiss their ass. The most frequent incidence being her not calling me when she was supposed to.

In every case, I never called or showed that she had the power over me. Do I feel played? Hell, no. I had already f*ucked every single one of them. So I could not care less. Besides, my self-respect is more important than the b!itch.

Peace!

 

[biker_gixxer]

I'm just curious how you guys take it when you feel a woman is testing you. Do you feel insulted or flattered?

I love when women test me. It gives me an opportunity to flatten their ego, lol.

 

[DJ_Dork]

well here's my twist on girls testing me. while i was driving to a place getting ready to have a nice innocent midnight stroll with my date. she tested me in the car (stupid girls just like ruining the moment, right?)

she asked "do you think this and this girl is pretty" and I thought to myself "test time" and I replied "i think she's hot" (i could've said she's okay or alright to make the answer neutral but i wanted to piss her off) - and obviously she replied "so would you go up to her and talk to her" - etc etc and i kept pissing her off. on the way i make a detour and told her i needed to go get something hot to drink. made her pay the whole bill.

never went on that midnight stroll - it was the girls fault for entirely killing the mood.

when a girl starts testing you, you gotta test her back or attack her tests to put her on the spotlight. well i dumped this broad later on cause she had some serious issues.

 

[biker_gixxer]

when a girl starts testing you, you gotta test her back or attack her tests to put her on the spotlight

amen brotha.