"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Being tall isn't always good

FMLizard

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There is a certain truth to this in the case of very large people, over 6'10" or so. The heart has to work much harder to pump blood around a much larger circulatory system and leads to a greater chance of heart failure. For the majority of tall people, such as those between 6'2" and 6'6", they have nothing to really worry about.

If it was this significant, wouldn't they charge tall people insane life and health insurance premiums?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hmph.. sounds like a rationalization for being "short".. imo.. 5'9 isnt that short, im 5'8 at 16 (hopefully still have a few inches to grow.. ill be happy with a 5'10)

anyway.. i dont think your height has to do with health.. yes ppl have pointed out that a lot of the abnormal ppl who are extremely tall 7ft+ die younger.. and the world record person who was like 10ft died in his 30s.. but then thats cuz its an abnormality.. same goes with dwarves.. the shortest person in the world was 3ft and died when he was in his 20s.. so yeah.
 

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The dinosaurs died out and they were big. The meek shall inherit the Earth as they say. I do think the bigger you are the longer to recover and so on. Like the bigger tennis players when injured take longer to recover.

Now I'm 5'8 and I don't like my height. I'm also 26 so I wear platforms when I can from hiteshoes.com

I wish I was taller but there's nothing I can do about it now. The only way to get taller at my age is the russian method of cracking your bones. But that costs heaps and kills like hell and puts you out of action for a long time.

So all you can focus on is the things you can change. Like working out, your conversational skills etc
 

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I'm 6'5". Nothing wrong with me.

Get over your insecurities already, please.:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
Well it is true that giants (7ft+) have a history of dying young, but otherwise I haven't come across this evidence. I actually thought being tall was a sign of good genes. If you notice, the average height is much higher now than in past decades and the average life span is much longer too.
being tall means good genes....and being short means having bad genes?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well, this is what I've read and which is why (allegedly) women are instinctively attracted to taller guys. I guess height and size in general at least portrays good genes, because it suggests physical strength and alpha male qualities.
 

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unless you're over 7 feet tall you won't have any serious problems from being tall. its' like saying larger breeds of dogs have more problems with their health and live shorter lives, when in reality most of the time it's the opposite.
 
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