Being "Separated" is killing plates

[Married Buried]

Recently separated playing the field.. it's scaring plates off. I got one who is cool with it and wants to see me but she just wants to be "friends" but I make her p/ssy wet with my game and she said she is confused. I met her already and again tomorrow.

But I just had another in the palm of the hand but when I was honest about being separated the plate cooled down. I don't know if the plate broke, I still got the #. But "separated" is killing the game.

Should I lie.. now don't get me wrong, I break it to them very smoothly in a Player Supreme type way but man it's a killer.

I really don't give a damn about the lost plate tonight I am just testing out what being honest will be like. Actually the new plate tonight I probably got her hamster spinning with my smooth game so we'll see if she comes around.

I don't give a f/ck either way. I saw a hot chic at the starbucks when I was married. I went back the other day and got her #. She said it was her last day working there. I asked for her #. She wrote it down. I thought maybe it was fate being her last day when I approached.

I called and a dude answered and told me she is not availabale. I texted and got no reply.

Chics are so damned strange. Just don't give a f/ck.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Instead of separated, you could say "my divorce hasn't been finalized yet."

 

[AmIAFC]

"Being Separated" is often synonymous with "Giving it a small break" or "time out," suggesting the strong possibility for reconciliation. Words, man...words. A woman has too many options and too little time to isolate herself to a stranger who's still legally, although loosely, attached to another woman...unless you possess enough strong, tangible qualities to convince her to dismiss such reservations.

 

[Desdinova]

Why are you discussing this 5hit with new plates? I usually don't discuss my marital status until after a few dates. By that time, they're too emotionally invested to care.

 

[Married Buried]

Why are you discussing this 5hit with new plates? I usually don't discuss my marital status until after a few dates. By that time, they're too emotionally invested to care.

This is when online where you have to put your status, at first I put single but then if I met someone and they find I lied that would get screwed over fast.

I think I'm going to put single anyway. If I met in person I wouldn't discuss it.

 

[Greasy Pig]

I'm with Des on this one.
Don't volunteer that shyt. Get the lay, then open up to them.....if you really must.

 

[MOTU]

Yea, I am with Bible_Belt I used "I'm the process of my divorce" in person and "single" online. Then throw back at them: You: "are you single?" Her: "Yea" You: "good, I don't hunt on another mans land, there is no honor in it" or some other statement that makes them feel secure that you aren't a cheater.

 

[speed dawg]

Dude, we all know what 'separated' means. It means your wife left you. Women know that 80% of divorces are because the wife left the man. So to the new chicks, that means that SOME woman left you and it turns them off. Women want men in demand, not ones that women leave. There are many women, even quality ones, that will f*ck married men if they feel the attraction.

You need to turn this around and either quit talking about it, or somehow imply that you left your wife. I just wouldn't mention it at all.

 

[Desdinova]

I've always used "single" when signing up for online dating. "Divorced" still has a nasty stigma attached to it, and "Separated" sounds like you're still not over it.

 

[Married Buried]

On the way out to hang with plate. I don't mess around. She knows everything and still is attached and only 24. Being out of the dating game for 4 years and I haven't missed a beat.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Married,
Tell 'em nuthin' take em nowhere...You must have a Death wish telling them they are mere Plates,let them maintain the deniable plausibilty of exclusivity!

 

[logicallefty]

When a woman starts proding into my relationship status prematurely, my response is generally "I am an available man right now and that's all I'm gonna tell you. So let's just enjoy our time together tonight and see how things go".

As for the online status thing, I think its OK to put "divorced" once court papers are filed, even though the divorce isn't final, so long as you know for 100% sure there is no going back.

 

[Married Buried]

When a woman starts proding into my relationship status prematurely, my response is generally "I am an available man right now and that's all I'm gonna tell you. So let's just enjoy our time together tonight and see how things go".

That's pretty damned good thanks! Adding to my collection.

 

[abe0]

Tell nothing and they asked tell them you have been divorced for a while. I made the mistake early on that I was going through a divorce and lost a number of plates. There are a lot of women who want to make sure that the drama is over and that you are available.....lie. Abe