Being direct AF on POF works?

[MrJack]

Come on bro, this is "direct?" What if she said "I want to take off my clothes and sleep with you." What would you consider that?

If you think that's direct, how long do you usually chat with them before asking for a phone number? 3-4 days?

Just a tip, "let you buy me a drink" doesn't usually work on most girls, yet this one it did. Don't try to be c0cky and funny. Just be sincere and show genuine interest.

No I go for the number within a few messages as you can see in my original post bruh.. but TO ME it's being direct because I've always been super indirect in the past.

And why are you saying not to be ****y funny? That's something that works well for me generally and works for a lot of people.

"I'll let you buy me a drink" works about half the time for me though. Mostly in person after I've opened and shyt but just because something doesn't work for you doesn't mean it doesn't work for anyone else with a different frame than you.

 

[Trump]

And why are you saying not to be ****y funny? That's something that works well for me generally and works for a lot of people.

Too childish and corny. But if it works for you, go for it.

"I'll let you buy me a drink" works about half the time for me though. Mostly in person after I've opened and shyt but just because something doesn't work for you doesn't mean it doesn't work for anyone else with a different frame than you.

Again if it works for you. I just assume a rich CEO wouldn't tell a girl he wanted to have sex with, "I'll let you buy me a drink."

 

[MrJack]

Again if it works for you. I just assume a rich CEO wouldn't tell a girl he wanted to have sex with, "I'll let you buy me a drink."

I am not a rich CEO so yea?

 

[Leisuresuitlegend]

for every 10 mails I send on POF I get 4 responses..

is that a good response rate??

That's fine. unless you have nothing better going on than to email, call, text etc. pof chicks constantly.

After a while it gets not only overwhelming replying, answering back calls, texts to different people etc. but boring. At least for me it did. Too much other shyt to do.