"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Being default different ?

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hows it possible to be default in front of a women when your heart feels different to that particular women. it's hard but possible hows it gone be?? big question dude. i mean when you see a women she smiles at you and you are not there cause you in the dream world everything seems blur. Is there a method being default no matter how beautiful a women we confronting!
:) :) :) :) :) :)

be the best answer giude us to path of success guys:)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Try not to put her above you. See yourself as being just as good and special as her. It sounds like you see her as a Goddess instead of a person just like you. Talk to her like you talk to anyone else.
 
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A woman smiles at you... Most people reply with a default smile, you're smile should not be too teethy or to lippy... kinda in the middle is good, while you're at it, make sure your posture is loking good. Stand tall, square shoulders with overall fluid movements. Read the DJ bible 5-10 times... after reading it, you will kinda go into automatic mode. After the encounters, critique yourself and figure out where you can make changes to get better results.
 
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your mind grumbles

yeah pretty much you gone smile but the thing is she is beautiful and once she smiles then you know it you are gone. cause the very 1st time i looked in to her eyes was totally awasome...... i looked deep in her eyes then my mother introduces her to me cause she is my mothers best friends daughter. then i again she smiles . then i looked her body one slip of a second . then we lost contact . then suddenly i found her in a car and she smiled at me .
we are taekwondo black belts and we only meet each other once a year. plus there is fans for her . i kinda like her very much hard to let her go man. yep yep:) is there any way that i can use to you know to get her like me crave for me:mad:
 
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REMEMBER, EVEN THE FINEST GIRL IS INSECURE ABOUT HERSELF.... EVEN MODELS R INSECURE
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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