“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Being cold and empathizing

Gan

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I'm afraid I'm too cold to really be able to connect with women in person. My texting game is pretty good, but it's like I'm a whole different person when we hang out. Part of me is holding back from showing them any kind of affection because I'm afraid of looking like an AFC. I can definitely make them laugh and all, but that's as far as it'll go. I'm not sure how to do it the right away. I'd be breaking my frame, because I'm not a very affectionate person to begin with. Although I DO want to change. I hate feeling like this. I keep everything bottled up because I don't know how to express these feelings the correct way.
If anybody could give me advice on how to shape my frame to be this way naturally, I would really appreciate it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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