"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Being called cute a good thing?

Scaramanga86

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I know i sound like a total afc, but thoughts and advice would be appreciated. I was addressing the class but i overheard this hot girl talking to her friend, anyway she said " he is so cute" , im 99% sure she was talking about me. Is being cute a good thing?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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CableLight

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I can't believe I'm doing this, but...

Item A: Girl refers to guy as "cute."

Item B: Generally, "cute" is a girlification of the word "attractive."

Item C: Unless you (or whoever she was talking about) was doing a little jig dressed up as a pink teddy bear while holding a family of bunny rabbits, Item B's definition of "cute" should apply.

So ask yourself: Is being attracitve a good thing? Scholars and scientists have many theories of this, but I'll go on the record saying "Yep."
 

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no it means you're not cute.. :rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by CableLight
I can't believe I'm doing this, but...

Item A: Girl refers to guy as "cute."

Item B: Generally, "cute" is a girlification of the word "attractive."

Item C: Unless you (or whoever she was talking about) was doing a little jig dressed up as a pink teddy bear while holding a family of bunny rabbits, Item B's definition of "cute" should apply.

So ask yourself: Is being attracitve a good thing? Scholars and scientists have many theories of this, but I'll go on the record saying "Yep."

LMFAO!

pure genius.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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