"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Being called a "manwhor"...

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Luveno

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It means either

1. You have no standards and **** anything with legs.

or

2. You're so successful it inspired jealousy in others.

If you're a member of 2, all I can say is:

welcome to the club
 

diablo

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Sorry, but a GUY called you a "manwhor*"? Apparently the guy is having some serious issues with his own sexuality - the last thing he needs to do is worry about yours. Go get 'em, tiger!
 

jakethasnake

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Originally posted by Luveno
It means either

1. You have no standards and **** anything with legs.



You mean, like a table?


:D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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biker_gixxer

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Originally posted by diablo
Sorry, but a GUY called you a "manwhor*"? Apparently the guy is having some serious issues with his own sexuality - the last thing he needs to do is worry about yours. Go get 'em, tiger!
Exactly
 

dietzcoi

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It is just a jealous AFC who is trying to drag you down. Ignore it or take it as a compliment. It is none of his business anyway

Dietzcoi
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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If some guy has issues with your skills they are HIS issues, not yours, don't carry his baggage. The moniker 'Manwh0re' (MW) is what YOU make of it (if you chose to use that title). It's just being a DJ, there will always be an AFC who will snipe at you for being one. The only thing that matters is what YOU attach to it.

BTW, since I've been back on the dating scene I've been calling myself a MW in certain instances just because no one else has, lol. Just remember, no label is capable of making you feel any particular way unless you let it!!!!
 
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