"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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being a short guy

LIKEaBAWZ

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Hey guys, I know women usually want a guy that's bigger than them.
As a guy i would also prefer a shorter girl but the problem is that i'm quite short.
A little over 5 foot 5 or 6, i'm not bad looking tho but i would like to ask you shorter guys like me how much it reduces the chances with a girl even if shes only 2 inches taller.

greetz
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wolfbones

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The girl I had the biggest crush on used to date this really short guy. He's not taller than 5 I believe. Or maybe just a tiny bit. And let me tell you, the girl was GORGEOUS. Don't trick yourself into thinking that your height will be an actual problem.
 

aquilonBE

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The important thing is is she showing interest? At the end of the day girls will have requirements just as guys do but there's no need to feel self-conscious, just look for the indicators and follow your gut.
 

synergy1

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Its an oddity, but you are probably better off dating a chick closer in height to you or maybe 1" shorter, as opposed to like 5'0" and the like. They always tend to want to date taller than themselves per my experience.
 
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