It was about a week ago when I started coming to this site. I came to it a few months earlier, and tried some of the stuff out, but never really succedded in the 'inner DJ'. I decided I was going to read, and ask some questions, and really ponder this **** out.
Last Friday I sat down and read and read. I finally started posting questions. I really wanted to get out of this rut that I seemed to have been in. Monday came around, and I told myself that I was going to apply at least some of the new stuff I had learned. I started applying some of the stuff (such as smiling, talking, eye contact and such). Those got some positive results, and I started feeling really good.
I have to say after getting a # from an 8 that I wasnt really even going after, and getting two more girls asking if I was doing anything over the weekend, your self esteem starts to rise a little bit.
So anyway... With my semi inspirering post done, I have a few questions. I have been botherin this one guy too much I think.
So anyway, theres this girl I met at school about 2-3 weeks ago. Small talk in the halls and such. I finally got to talk to her somewhat a few days last week and this week. I guess I did do some kino (deffinatly not enough though). Anway, the past two days this slob of a guy (fat, ugly, smells, and loud, and I guess funny) started hanging around her alot. He was trying to give her hugs and that kind of stuff (pretty damn nasty and annoying). So I thought that I was out of the picture. But, I was thinking. AFC's would give up this easily. Me and her met up after school for a few and talked. Hit it off well (as usual). So. My question is... Since time probably isnt on my side, should I ask her to do something during the week next week (didnt get her # for this weekend). Or should I wait until about tuesday-wednesday and ask her to do something friday. I drive, so driving around aint a problem. Thanks guys.
Last Friday I sat down and read and read. I finally started posting questions. I really wanted to get out of this rut that I seemed to have been in. Monday came around, and I told myself that I was going to apply at least some of the new stuff I had learned. I started applying some of the stuff (such as smiling, talking, eye contact and such). Those got some positive results, and I started feeling really good.
I have to say after getting a # from an 8 that I wasnt really even going after, and getting two more girls asking if I was doing anything over the weekend, your self esteem starts to rise a little bit.
So anyway... With my semi inspirering post done, I have a few questions. I have been botherin this one guy too much I think.
So anyway, theres this girl I met at school about 2-3 weeks ago. Small talk in the halls and such. I finally got to talk to her somewhat a few days last week and this week. I guess I did do some kino (deffinatly not enough though). Anway, the past two days this slob of a guy (fat, ugly, smells, and loud, and I guess funny) started hanging around her alot. He was trying to give her hugs and that kind of stuff (pretty damn nasty and annoying). So I thought that I was out of the picture. But, I was thinking. AFC's would give up this easily. Me and her met up after school for a few and talked. Hit it off well (as usual). So. My question is... Since time probably isnt on my side, should I ask her to do something during the week next week (didnt get her # for this weekend). Or should I wait until about tuesday-wednesday and ask her to do something friday. I drive, so driving around aint a problem. Thanks guys.
