"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Before and After Pics. 1st Month at the gym.

EFFORT

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Mace said:
I appreciate all people trying to help, but the information given here is TOTALLY WRONG! I am a Fitneß und Nutrition Trainer so i know what i am talking about.
First for skinny guys who have a fast metabolism while dieting for fat loss an energy consum of 1600-1700 kcal for a weight of 167pounds is ideal. And while dieting do a refeed once a week, that means eat normal and whatever you like. That prevents the body from going into a safe mode
Second for gaining mass 3000 kcals are ideal, everything more is just going to be stored in fat. And losing this fat after is everything else than easy. You will curse for every kg!
Third an protein intake from 1,5-2gramm per kg weight (new Sport University study) is enough. Everthing more aint used for muscle building und can damage your kidneys if you dont drink enough daily.

Train hard, eat smart, sleep 7,5-9 hours daily and you will become impressive
so i should stop eating 5000cals a day?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good progress man. you gotta find the right combo/timing of macro nutrients that work for you. Everyone's body is quite different. That being said, there are general guidelines.

I'd definitely eat more...more calories mean your metabolic rate will be higher, that means you'll have a much easier time getting lean. Lotsa protein/healthy fats, etc.

Good job so far.

EFFORT ya you should...drop it to like 1500! Cause otherwise you might cause your kidneys to explode AND get fat at the same time...now that would suck to be a fatty with exploding kidneys. You'd like get NO chics that way! :D
 

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5000kcals is insane. Soldiers in their basic training in europe get 3500 a day, and that training is aimed for getting muscles with real strength, mass and stamina.
And eating more wont fasten your metabolism. More muscle mass is fastening your metabolism
 

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Mace said:
5000kcals is insane. Soldiers in their basic training in europe get 3500 a day, and that training is aimed for getting muscles with real strength, mass and stamina.
And eating more wont fasten your metabolism. More muscle mass is fastening your metabolism
I eat ~5k to maintain my weight of 240. guess I'm insane. :D

Incidentally I was in the army, in Europe, for 26 months - we sure as hell didn't get 3500 cal a day nor was our training aimed for growing muscles. Fitness and stamina yeah - weight, no.
 

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Maybe you are a genetic Monster, who knows ;) Fact is the 99,9% non genetic monster will get fat eating 5000. And where in europe and when did you serve? maybe i was your instructor
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mace said:
5000kcals is insane. Soldiers in their basic training in europe get 3500 a day, and that training is aimed for getting muscles with real strength, mass and stamina.
And eating more wont fasten your metabolism. More muscle mass is fastening your metabolism

This is me dieting on 2500-3000 cals. I'm around 5'8" and was 165-168 for the shoot. Didn't do any cardio for like 3-4 days before the shoot so I'm still pretty soft. I was taking in 200-250 g protein as well....I hope I didn't get bilateral pylonephritis...ipsilateral would be ok tho! :D

http://i102.photobucket.com/albums/m91/Treydesmon/DSC02411.jpg

Can you comment on differential thermogenic effect of macronutrients on metabolic rate? Like say the difference between the thermic effect of carbs vs. protein...Also what about macronutrients dosing and timing affecting hormonal control of metabolism?
 

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Maybe you are a genetic Monster, who knows ;) Fact is the 99,9% non genetic monster will get fat eating 5000. And where in europe and when did you serve? maybe i was your instructor
Served in Crete and Cyprus.. and this was some years ago. lol.
 

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Ah, an American in withamerican army stationed in europe?
I was instructor in Germany
 

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And lol is all you have to say? May i ask your Rank, british soldier
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I fart in your general direction.

Mace, believe it from someone who knows personally.. the warboss is definately not a 'muscular' guy just 'keeping weight' at 5k. Not to mention that all the healthy foods he talks about.. he never eats.

And his knowledge of 'weightlifting' and 'healthy diets' comes from all his enormous amounts of free time that he has to read books. Tata.

~The **** has officially been cut.~


You may now all stop listening to the gigantic amounts of crap this guy is feeding to you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CuttingTheSht said:
Mace, believe it from someone who knows personally.. the warboss is definately not a 'muscular' guy just 'keeping weight' at 5k. Not to mention that all the healthy foods he talks about.. he never eats.

And his knowledge of 'weightlifting' and 'healthy diets' comes from all his enormous amounts of free time that he has to read books. Tata.

~The **** has officially been cut.~


You may now all stop listening to the gigantic amounts of crap this guy is feeding to you.
Why are you doing this. Why not just post under your real name.
 
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