Been getting a lot of BS excuses for setting up the 1st date. Why?

[tomwesten27]

I have been doing a lot of cold approaching in the bars. Been getting rejected a lot but also been number closing, and most of them even messaged me a few hours after the bar saying how it was nice to meet me, and lets get together soon etc.

So since last weekend I have number closed 4 women. And when I hit them up for a first date I keep getting BS excuses. "I am not sure if I work this week I will let you know!" "I am actually really busy this week.." "I have a wedding this weekend so maybe next week!"

Just BS excuse after excuse. Why even give me your #?? lol. I understand its a numbers game but man.

If I do get a "I am busy this week" response, do I try again the next week and see what happens?? Or do I just delete and next?

 

[El Payaso]

If you don't get a solid counter offer then delete and move on.

 

[In2theGame]

From personal experience, You cant get frustrated at this although it can be frustrating when your trying to go on a date and get some azz and all these chicks begin making excuses/flaking. Ive sent texts to girls and maybe they cant make it on so and so day/weekend so i leave it and say "Ok cool hun, Hit me up so we can go have a good time". I leave it at that and move on to the next girl i got in line. In a week or two i get random texts out of no where from these girls and they want to meet up, so i choose which girls i want to follow up with or if im still interested. I get girls I've met days, week even months! prior and they text or call me out of the blue lol. This can be a good thing sometimes because as you continue to pick up more and more girls... You have other girls you met before "in the queue" so to speak, So that random weekend you dont have much going on, all of a sudden a chick you met a while ago texts you randomly and you have a date.

 

[Greasy Pig]

Classic Mauser! Great post.

 

[nismo-4]

Because they don't find you attractive enough to date. So they just want attention from you (attention wh0res putting you in the friendzone.)

Use the ONE STRIKE rule. One flake, and delete her. Only believe actions. Oh yeah, when they give excuses, don't hold your breath.

Case closed.

 

[asa_don]

when you get a "maybe" answer move on, it isn't going to happen.