If you've never kissed or made out with a girl before, do you think that as long as you know that you should keep the kiss soft/light, follow her lead, and follow other tips given on this site that its possible to be a good kisser, despite the fact you have never practiced on anybody before? OR, do you think the only way to become good or decent is by having done it before?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
becoming a good kisser
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Nex
Senior Don Juan
Some people are excellent kissers the first time they kiss.
There's this whole anticipation before your first kiss, you think there's like a big secret to it!! But after you're through, you'll see how normal and natural it is -- nothing to worry about it!!
There's this whole anticipation before your first kiss, you think there's like a big secret to it!! But after you're through, you'll see how normal and natural it is -- nothing to worry about it!!
Hollowpoint
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" do you think that as long as you know that you should keep the kiss soft/light, follow her lead, and follow other tips given on this site that its possible to be a good kisser, "
Yes.
Don't jam your tongue down her throat, that's not cool.
Do drool on her. Don't stick your tongue in her ear (generally.)
Run your hands through her hair, hold hands.
Massage her if you know how....
Kiss around her face, get the neck. Hot stuff. No tongue unless she starts first. You can lick her lips though. That's hot.....
And will get her thinking of your tongue on other parts of her body, and you better read and get good at that too.
Yes.
Don't jam your tongue down her throat, that's not cool.
Do drool on her. Don't stick your tongue in her ear (generally.)
Run your hands through her hair, hold hands.
Massage her if you know how....
Kiss around her face, get the neck. Hot stuff. No tongue unless she starts first. You can lick her lips though. That's hot.....
And will get her thinking of your tongue on other parts of her body, and you better read and get good at that too.
Yeah, thres no big deal to it.
If you'v never kissed someone before you're just worrried about how to do it or make it happen or what to do.
I was like that, we all were like that before we did it. My first kiss was kinda weird though that it just happened. I mean, it was probably obvious as daylight to anybosy outside the two of us that it was going to happen but she'll let you know when she's ready, you just have to do it. Softly on her lips. Don't go in with mouth open or tongue out. Test her lips and just follow what she does. As long as you're slow and soft it'll be a good kiss.
If you'v never kissed someone before you're just worrried about how to do it or make it happen or what to do.
I was like that, we all were like that before we did it. My first kiss was kinda weird though that it just happened. I mean, it was probably obvious as daylight to anybosy outside the two of us that it was going to happen but she'll let you know when she's ready, you just have to do it. Softly on her lips. Don't go in with mouth open or tongue out. Test her lips and just follow what she does. As long as you're slow and soft it'll be a good kiss.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
don_juan_20
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Keep your lips dry.
Make sure you swallow when frenching, nothing worse then stopping and finding out both of you have drool all over your mouths.
Tilt your head so you don't bump noses, but even so it doesn't really matter if you do, just smile and laugh about it.
Play with her tongue (Most sensitive area, makes it fun), avoid the teeth, and don't bite!
Make sure you swallow when frenching, nothing worse then stopping and finding out both of you have drool all over your mouths.
Tilt your head so you don't bump noses, but even so it doesn't really matter if you do, just smile and laugh about it.
Play with her tongue (Most sensitive area, makes it fun), avoid the teeth, and don't bite!
Marius_Novus
Don Juan
Kiss the way you'd like to be kissed.
If the kiss lasts longer than a minute, use whichever hand you feel more comfortable with and softly put it on the back of her neck and softly pet it. Play with her hair, softly. Simply said, your hands should handle her like a priceless antique furniture or vase or whatever. Until she becomes more comfortable and unwinds. Depends on the situation.
And remember to never judge a kisser by the looks. What I mean is that there is no rule stating that the prettier the girl the better she kisses. It's a false image created by the media!
Same with males. If you kiss her well...then she'll melt for you.
I had a chance to kiss different kind of girls and was really surprised (or let down) by how crappy kissers the pretty ones were. It's a big turn-off.
If the kiss lasts longer than a minute, use whichever hand you feel more comfortable with and softly put it on the back of her neck and softly pet it. Play with her hair, softly. Simply said, your hands should handle her like a priceless antique furniture or vase or whatever. Until she becomes more comfortable and unwinds. Depends on the situation.
And remember to never judge a kisser by the looks. What I mean is that there is no rule stating that the prettier the girl the better she kisses. It's a false image created by the media!
Same with males. If you kiss her well...then she'll melt for you.
I had a chance to kiss different kind of girls and was really surprised (or let down) by how crappy kissers the pretty ones were. It's a big turn-off.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Intensity and passion of the kiss needs to be varied and done unexpectedly. start of light and then real passionate then light as if you're teasing the f@#$ out of them. Also rent out a few porno and watch how some of the lezo do it.
NaturallySelected
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For the first kiss, just kiss her on the lips a few times, then start using a HINT of tounge. Seriously my first kiss wasn't that bad, within a few minutes you can figure out what your doing.
. Nibble on her lower lip, but be GENTLE! Brush the tip of your tounge underneath the bottom of her top lip.
I find it's better with your lips a little moist, not too wet though. I agree, don't bite. Nibble. Gently
. Nibble on her lower lip, but be GENTLE! Brush the tip of your tounge underneath the bottom of her top lip.