"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Become a strong and powerful man!!!

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Women like strong men-because they like to be protected and often cannot cope with life and need a man to look after them.
But what is strength and how can you develop it?

1. MUSCLES This is the easiest thing to develop. If you are rugged and well built women will feel safe around you.

2. SUCCESS People who succeed in life are strong because it is bloody hard to get ahead in life. The world is a rat race and if you are at the top you must be a strong man

3. COURAGE The best way to display this is to never show fear to a woman and subtely let her know that you aren't afraid to take risks and do dangerous stuff. This must be genuine as she can see through wimps.

4. EMOTIONAL STABILITY Women are emotional and react at the slightest thing. As a man you need to be an emotional rock who is not affected by anything and can stay calm and weather the storm. When she has a crisis she needs to be able to rely on you to stabilise her.

5. DRIVE Know what you want in life and go for it no matter how bad the odds are. Women on the whole don't know what they want and need a man to make decisions for them. She doesn't want a wishy-washy man who can't make his mind up.

6. LEAD Take the lead and make decisions. It is your job to ask her out, to kiss her, to advance at each stage of the relationship. Show this strength and women will go along with you. Hesitate and she will hesitate.

7. MONEY wealth is power and she knows that. With money you can smooth a lot of life's obstacles and buy your way out of a lot of trouble.

8. STATUS when you have status other men respect you and look up to you and are nice to you. That is power.

9. SELFRESPECT Strong men don't take crap from women and respect themselves. You are not easily influenced by others and are able to stand up for yourself.

10. UNWAVERING SENSE OF SELF Strong men define themselves. They are individuals and live life on their own terms. In a world where everyone wants to fit in and copy people, you are an individual!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Those points are valid and only state the obvious. Women prefer men with power. But, I would add that there are a multitude of men who lack money, ambition, direction, etc. yet are able to pull gorgeous women. I see it all the time. What these men have is the appearance of power and status that is conveyed through a combination of masculine qualities (i,e muscles)attitude and confidence. So even though you may not have money, a good career or ambition, but emit a high degree of masculinity, you will do well with women, nonetheless.
 

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Or you can be average looking, approach every girl you like and i guarantee you will get 1 girl whos a 9.

All you need is.
to not be skinny or fat (even if you are skinny or a little fat, it wont matter).

clean skin, hell you got a few spots, it wont realy matter (just not too extreme).

nice cloths and hair.

nice scent

No need to complicate things, all you need is to be fearless and have a gd image.

All the points you said are just parts of showing "strong character", which is of course a gd thing, but not much to do with getting women, they just help.

i'm sure alot of guys make stuff up, to be the perfect person as an excuse not to bite the bullet!
 

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I am not denying that men pull women without these characteristics, nor am I saying that until you acquire these characteristics you shouldn't hit on women.
All I am saying is that these are desired qualities that if at all possible are worth trying to develop.

My post is not especially original or novel, but sometimes a bit of repetition is good especially if explained and stated in a slightly different way.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alot of guys will look at it and think, "wow, i'm not good enough". keyboard jockeys live for this stuff!
 

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Yes, I am trying to develop all of these qualities and more and that is why women are not a priority for me at the moment.
 

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Originally posted by S0LID
Alot of guys will look at it and think, "wow, i'm not good enough". keyboard jockeys live for this stuff!
Save the heavy stuff for after they've picked up some momentum from little victories ... whatever those might be.

Or weed out the hopeless cases by showing them what it takes to be a real man. Being a man was never meant to be easy. Natural and sexual selection aren't what they used to be but they're still around.

Either way works.
 
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