It's biological , we are ANIMALS after all. In the jungle , the female seeks the alpha/ top dog. In real life , some women view money as their judge of value. ( These women are seen are gold diggers )
Some women want a living partner ( seen as wives )
At the end of the day women are going to test and filter to get their needs met. Problem guys make is thinking dating /plating/marriage is one way. BIG mistake , women also have needs that need to be fulfilled; some just happen to have easy needs while others require more. In essence , just as you filter through to get what you want , women do the same. Now guys being more logical and straight forward make their needs and desires clear. Women result to testing to see if they found the right male. ( Now excessive testing is just a sign of a child - adult but EVERY woman will test you. From the essential meet up to marriage and until you die.
A simple example is today I'm supposed to meet up with one of my plates. She called me last night and I told her I will give her a call today to let her know. Anyways today she didn't message me the usual GoodMorning ( Test 1)
I called her after work to let her know I'm going home to shower then I will come pick her up , she insisted I don't go home and shower because she wanted to see me very badly ( Test 2 ) To see if I'm going to break my back and commit to her suggestion. She claimed she will be going to shopping later on and wanted to see me ( Test 3) - to see if I'm going to drop everything and come over.
Now these are NOT ground breaking tests but I can assure you that as a man if you begun to let these little test slide , she is only going to push her luck and see how far she can drag your manhood. The earlier you spot and correct **** tests the easier it will be to deal with them in the future.
Final example and my last situation with my ex. ( Inexperience back then )
Totally new guy come into picture ( test 1)
I don't make my needs clear
She notices and promotes him to "friend" (test 2) - at this stage it's totally useless because when you try to stop her from interacting with a "friend" , she will label you bossy ..game over you lost. Most you can do is walk away and end things. Again I failed.
She noticed weakness , so she hangs out with "friend" ( test 3 ) at this stage she is in power and you've become the woman.
And you can guess how my last relationship ended . However , regardless the outcome , I learned so much game from it.
Hope this helps somebody !
Some women want a living partner ( seen as wives )
At the end of the day women are going to test and filter to get their needs met. Problem guys make is thinking dating /plating/marriage is one way. BIG mistake , women also have needs that need to be fulfilled; some just happen to have easy needs while others require more. In essence , just as you filter through to get what you want , women do the same. Now guys being more logical and straight forward make their needs and desires clear. Women result to testing to see if they found the right male. ( Now excessive testing is just a sign of a child - adult but EVERY woman will test you. From the essential meet up to marriage and until you die.
A simple example is today I'm supposed to meet up with one of my plates. She called me last night and I told her I will give her a call today to let her know. Anyways today she didn't message me the usual GoodMorning ( Test 1)
I called her after work to let her know I'm going home to shower then I will come pick her up , she insisted I don't go home and shower because she wanted to see me very badly ( Test 2 ) To see if I'm going to break my back and commit to her suggestion. She claimed she will be going to shopping later on and wanted to see me ( Test 3) - to see if I'm going to drop everything and come over.
Now these are NOT ground breaking tests but I can assure you that as a man if you begun to let these little test slide , she is only going to push her luck and see how far she can drag your manhood. The earlier you spot and correct **** tests the easier it will be to deal with them in the future.
Final example and my last situation with my ex. ( Inexperience back then )
Totally new guy come into picture ( test 1)
I don't make my needs clear
She notices and promotes him to "friend" (test 2) - at this stage it's totally useless because when you try to stop her from interacting with a "friend" , she will label you bossy ..game over you lost. Most you can do is walk away and end things. Again I failed.
She noticed weakness , so she hangs out with "friend" ( test 3 ) at this stage she is in power and you've become the woman.
And you can guess how my last relationship ended . However , regardless the outcome , I learned so much game from it.
Hope this helps somebody !
