"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Be great, screw the DJ!!

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This post is useless and a waste of forum space I had to read all that just to let myself know that i should be great.
:cuss: YOU WASTED FIVE MINUTES OF MY GODDAM LIFE AND I WANT THEM BACK!ILL GET YOU FOR THIS IF ITS THE LAST THING I DO!!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Swoop
cursory glance isn't enough. You must read the entire thing. Also the very same authors who compose the bible has other materials that elaborate on the subject.
I recall reading the whole thing (even Pook's mammoth articles) when I got here a few years ago under a different name and thinking they were all about getting women, even if they were about being real men. The object is to be a real man in order to get women.
 
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