Be friendly with the gals!

[ScrewIt]

Anyway i think this is a great way of improving social proof along with popularity.

A lot of guys underestimate the power of being friendly to women, including men.

The thing is when you socialize with the opposite sex or same sex and ask about their opinion, you're presenting yourself as a person that cares about other's opinions or make an effort to say 'hi' or 'hows it going'.

The secret behind it is it shows you're a charming fellow who can easily make friends. being friendly = making friends = popularity (social proof). Evne if you dont make friends it shows positive qualities about you, such as a bright personality.

many countless times i would chat up with people or at least say hi....and at least once there's always a girl that notices this and her IL rises. Hell talk to everyone, except her and she cant help but break the ice and say "hi" back to you, because she wants to know what makes you tick.

Call this a come on or hit on, but if you present yourself in such a way, girls will easily flock to you and even ask you out.

 

[DonJuanMonk]

Where did you learn this? From the Safeway handbook or bank teller handbook on how to fake enthusiasm or a smile to appeal to customers? Or did you get a guidebook on how to appear fake from the Los Angeles book on socializing?

Be yourself, if you don't like someone, so be it. Obviously if you do like someone or respect them and the reciprocation is there, you'd advance it.

 

[tactic]

can i smack you?

 

[Boner da Stoner]

screwit, I hope this comes from realizing and seeing it in process... sure does seem like it

Your going to get many AFC flamers on here trying to steer you away from your point.

still, the best weapon an AFC has when approaching women is, she won't bite and, "hi, my name is ...."

I saw the post and thought u were the one in need, but your post still gives that away to those who don't try to understand the concepts and only want the methods.

Nice post

 

[LittleElf]

Why doesn't someone file this under..."I wanna be a politician".

 

[diplomatic_lies]

I like it. Good tip

 

[ScrewIt]

perhaps i was a little too broad about this topic.

Anyway to clarify, obviously this is only meant under certain situations , ex: class, party
and not meant for places where people easily leave or divide such as clubs.

There is a method behind this, but for every person it comes out differently because no one is perfect.

Boner - yes this was from process. It's been done and i've seen its success.
But i guess you could say the main quality you do need to exude is charm. w/o charm you're just anohter joe.

 

[mungro]

good post man, I only realized this recently, but the thing is social proof that comes from a truly outgoing personality is that it doesn't grow overnight.

you have to be truly friendly, to both guys and girls, and slowly you'll notice like I did that people will begin to "buzz" your name. now a days, I get a lot of people who ask me, "how do you know everyone?", I always end up saying, "ahh, I don't know everyone, I don't know that guy over there [pointing]."

but you gotta make an effort each day to meet people and be outgoing enough to approach them. girls seem to really enjoy a guy who knows people, obviously.

 

[DJ4Real]

When you're C&F, it's a way to show friendliness. See, you don't want come off to women as too "friendly."

Good post, but I believe that there are some quirks in it.

 

[white cloud 8]

F*ck that. You don't need to be friendly with anyone .

 

[Vince]

Good post.

If you are genuine and in a good mood/friendly, then it works wonders. It has worked for me a lot. If you appear anti-social, then the woman of interest may not feel comfortable enough to talk to you.