"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sayajin_Prince

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i know this has been posted a lot of times here

but i've talked with a great female friend of mine and she told me this because she said to me we are good friends so you deserve to know what a woman wants/like


1) dont give too much too soon. make her deserve your attention, your love, your companionship. give and take but do it in the right timing. timing is everything she told, u just need to know when to draw back your attention and make her come and get she will see u as a misterious guy.

2) be misterious and a challenge, that's what women like, dont let the routine **** up the relationship. she stated all women like this be they young or old, there's no difference.

3) wait as much as you can to say i love you to her, because she will want to hear it lotsa times and it will eventually lose its power.


she also said that when a younger girl thinks that in a phase of your relationship u are positive and fun and then she changes her oppinion about u and considers u a negative person, that implies that u are too mature for her, that she doesnt want the responsability of the relationship and just wanna have fun.

well hope this helps some newbies here because it comes from the mouth of a woman and a really good and honest woman.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My god this is an awe inspiring post, something I have never read ever in my life!!! Give this man an applause, everyone.
 

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As if it doesn't merit repeating. What a jacka##!
 
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