"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bars as a 21 year old?

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Hello DJs I’ve been on this site for more than 4 years now. I have been stuck in a way with progressing as a DJ. I realized that I had to do inner child work to resolve problems. But now I feel lost along the DJ path.

I have gone clubbing three times in SF ever since I got here and it’s really not my niche since my strength lies in verbal game.
I am considering going to bars so I can actually talk to or meet girls and possibly guy friends which I am lacking in that share similar life interests.
How does it sound to hit up bars in SF as a 21 year old? Will I be super young compared to everyone there? When is the best time to go (isn’t it different compared to clubbing)? And anyone know good bars to go to in San Francisco?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bro get off the laptop and go outside your house to a bar and answer your own questions
 
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