"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Balancing the Abs

Gus

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The left side of my abs are almost twice as big as the right side, probably from playing baseball for 12 years and the constant rotation to the that side when I hit and throw.

Anyway, what's the best way to isolate the right side to build them up and balance out my abs?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mad_monkey59

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Okay, if you need to concerntrate the work onto the right side of your abs, go into a regular crunch/ situp position, then lay the side of your left leg onto the floor, so now your torso is in the original position and your legs and hips are at 45 degrees to your torso, then just sit up as per normal, this should isolate the right obliques, and the the right side of your abdominals.

Unfortuinetly having abs that are a different shape on either side is due to genetics, and if your abs are naturally different shapes or sizes there is nothing you can do about it.
 

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Yeah it's not genetics, it's just because they're overdeveloped because I do the equivalent of about 100 Russian twists to the left every day. So I hope doing isolation crunches will develop the weaker side the same way the twisting developed the strong side...
 
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