Bad First Date Spots

[CornbreadFed]

Coffee dates, dinner dates, bar dates, whatever. There is no Meta first date spot. If dating were that simple, like solving a math equation, this site would not exist. Dating is more like reading James Joyce messy, confusing, and sometimes impossible to figure out.

The goal is simple: go somewhere you feel comfortable and confident. Bars might work for you, but they might be a nightmare for someone else. Sorry, but if Chilis or Applebee’s is your kryptonite, maybe your game is not as good as you think it is.

Here is the quick list of dates to avoid:

1. Movies or Concerts – The whole point of a first date is interaction. If you cannot talk, you cannot connect.
2. Logistically Complicated Dates – Ask yourself: does this place have strict time limits? Does it take more than 20 minutes to get there? Are there multiple spots that are not walking distance? First dates are not a military operation.
3. Crowded and Loud Venues – Ice houses, weekend bars, carnivals, sports events. You cannot focus on each other and conversation dies.
4. Expensive Dinner Dates – Reservations, valet, cross-mannerism… save that for later. Fancy dinners rarely impress someone who is not interested or a gold digger that’s already been to every hip spot in town. First dates should be low pressure, not high stakes.
5. Trio Dates – Pre dinner, dinner, post dinner. You do not have to be Christian Grey on the first date. Keep it simple and fun.
6. Double Dates – Too much cross connection management. Just no.

Rule of thumb: the best first dates are simple, comfortable, and allow you to talk and connect. Everything else is just overcomplicating things.

But all dinner dates are bad? Wrong. They are only as bad as you make them.

1. Do not pick some expensive over complicated restaurant.
2. Order simple dishes, shareable plates. If she likes you, she will follow your lead. If she does not, she will not and that is your early indicator to end the date and pay for what you ordered.
3. If it goes well, offer to extend the date to whatever you want.
4. That is it. Yall are acting like a bunch of neckbeards over this subject lol.

 

[Gamisch]

Not a bad post and it was also kinda funny....nothing new but yet always good to hammer this shyte down.

@nismo-4 said it best recently: "Chad and Tyrone offering a walk in the park is different than Bob and John offering it. "

All those dates are either HEAVILY overcompensating for the lack of real attraction from a simp ,and when Chad or Tyrone does offer this it's a reward to her for all the duck she been sicking recently...knowing she'll be bending over again that same night if necessary on the toilet/ in the car/ in the bushes just for shyte and giggles.

 

[Vanderdonck]

I personally have not done dinner dates for a first date, the experience just doesn't work for me but to each his own.

Was going to add to your list, don't take her to a party. Seems like fun but it's just opening her up to other guys before you've planted your flag.